“How You Look At Me” (** out of four) was a jumbled melodrama about an enigmatic and provocative young woman (Anna Astrom) who enters the lives of a man (George Blagden) coming to terms with grief and his wife (Ellie Turner) and this leads to a sexual triangle of desire and frustration that intertwines and affects them all. At times strikingly told and features strong acting from all but film still leaves you cold and detached since the characters all remain aloof and thus so does their relationships and so does the film. A film one can admire at times without actually fully enjoying or getting involved in.